Tuesday, September 3, 2013

God Doesn’t Hate Gays or Anyone Else!

If you where in worship on August 18th you heard me say without hesitation or qualification that God doesn’t punish or destroy.  I said:
This story [Noah and the rainbow] of God’s grace and love winning over God’s bent to punish and destroy is the foundation of the Gospel.  It is a critical step in the story of salvation that runs through Jesus and beyond.  What God called good in creation, now God promises to maintain and not destroy and in Jesus what God has promised not to destroy is shown the power of love and the means of grace.  God is all about grace and love.  It’s not that we aren’t loved or accepted or that God is so angry at us for what we have done.  God doesn’t care about all that.  All God cares about is that we sincerely desire to transform ourselves and that we want to help God transform the world.  God loves us as we are; period!  Grace really is true!  God is love!
So it should come as no surprise that I don’t think God hates gays or lesbians or bi-sexual or transgendered people.  If God loves everyone as they are no matter sexual orientation, skin color, economic status or religious affiliation then so should I and so should the Church. 

Christianity has been of two minds at the beginning of change on almost every issue of equal rights and social justice through the centuries.   Often times Christianity has had to go through tremendous upheaval and hostility, even war before it has found its way into the world that God envisions.  You see Christianity hasn’t dealt well with change.  We haven’t liked getting over or moving beyond our basic human instinct of “us” and “them” as a needed world view in order for me to feel safe and empowered.  Christianity is always slow to broaden our definition of who is acceptable and why.  You can trace this hesitancy from the early Christian community’s division over the need for circumcision to issues of women’s rights to slavery and up to the inclusion of LBGT folks in the life of the church.  Always there have been voices on both sides and many in the middle seeking to claim that they have God/the Bible/Christian tradition/ the natural order on their side.  Always after much debate, hand wringing, schisms, torment and soul searching the majority of Christians get it figured out and justice prevails.  It happened with circumcision, with slavery, with women’s rights, with race and it is happening with the inclusion of LBGT’s.

There is song out right now that is powerfully related to what I am saying here.  “Same Love” carries the point as Brain Macklemore raps:
Gay is synonymous with the lesser
It's the same hate that's caused wars from religion
Gender to skin color, the complexion of your pigment
The same fight that led people to walk outs and sit ins
It's human rights for everybody, there is no difference!
Live on and be yourself
When I was at church they taught me something else
If you preach hate at the service
those words aren't anointed
That holy water that you soak in has been poisoned
When everyone else is more comfortable
remaining voiceless
Rather than fighting for humans
that have had their rights stolen
I might not be the same, but that's not important
No freedom till we're equal, damn right I support it

I am not trying to say that Christianity hasn’t done great harm in its slow and terrible path to change.  I’m not implying that all Christians have come to the same place concerning these and other issues.  I am not trying to imply that the work on any of these issues is completed.  I just want to make it clear that Christianity does find its way into the place God calls us, the place of acceptance and love; the place of justice and reconciliation; the place of transformation of ourselves and our world.

And for those that want to throw the Bible at this issue I have to remind you of what I said about the Bible on August 11th:
The Bible is the story of God’s encounter with a people, of God’s interaction with a people, of God’s revelation of self to the world, of God seeking to know human existence, and of the clash of human and divine wills...It isn’t the complete story…  We know that the Bible can help us, inspire us, and reveal God to us but it isn’t infallible or inerrant and it doesn’t have all the answers…

Humans are hopefully evolving, changing, learning and growing.  Our understandings of people and cultures, of races and religions, of what is healthy and normal, of what is true and acceptable are all hopefully evolving and changing too.  God has a dream for this universe and for humanity’s role in it.  I believe that we don’t fully comprehend that role yet.  That over the millennia as humans have evolved from hunter/gatherers to early farmers to urban dwellers, from superstitious fearers of the workings of nature to inquisitive explores of the universe, from empiral governments that rule by fear and violence to democracies run by and for the people; as we have evolved in all aspects of our ways of living and understanding this universe we have moved slowly into the world God wishes for us.  As partners of God we have freedom of choice and because we can choose freely change can take a lot of time and effort.  But change does happen and we can learn to love and include others fully and completely as they are without placing restrictions or obligations upon them.

In the past the church often had to be the leader, helping society find its way but now Christianity finds itself behind.  Society is moving ahead with the full acceptance of LGBT folks.  What stands in the way of achieving full acceptance in our culture is Christianity but not all Christians.  We who have heard God’s voice and understand that all people are loved by God – that all people are God’s people, LGBTs included – we must witness to our faith and our God by working to ensure the full inclusion of LGBT folk in society and in the church. God doesn’t hate anyone.  All are accepted and loved by God.  Faithful Christians need to find ways to combat the social perception that we hate gays because we do not and God doesn’t either.


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